Internet 101: The Amazing Formula That Can Make You A Success!
by
Dave Turner
Believe it or not,
there is a special formula that makes people successful.
Unfortunately, you
can't buy the formula. But if you could, it would be hotter than
"Viagra!"
So, what is this
amazing formula that I'm talking about?
Okay. Here it is:
1. Have a goal
2. Do what you love
3. Have relentless
desire and determination
That's it. That's
the formula.
Now don't be fooled
by the simplicity of the formula. After all, if it were easy,
everybody would be successful and we all know that's not the case.
However, the formula
is definitely within the reach of everyone who really wants it.
Let's start with the
first part of the formula: (1.) Have a goal.
Every ounce of human
progress--our inventions big and small, our medical and scientific
discoveries, our engineering achievements, our business
successes--were first visualized before they became realities.
High-tech satellites circle the earth because scientists made it their
goal to conquer space.
So, what is a goal?
A goal is an
objective, a purpose. A goal is more than just a dream, it's a dream
acted upon. A goal is more than just sitting back and "wishing you
could." A goal is a clear-as-glass, "This is what I'm working toward."
Nothing happens, no
steps forward are taken, until a goal is established. Without goals,
individuals just wander aimlessly through life under-achieving. They
stumble and bumble along not having a clue where they're going. So, as
a result, they never get anywhere.
Goals are as
essential to success as air is to life. No one ever stumbles into
success, without having a clear-cut goal. (Winning the lottery doesn't
count). Get a clear picture of where you want to go.
Write your goals
down and review them every single day. Formulate a game plan. Ask
yourself where you want to be a month from now--a year from now--3
years, 5 years, 10 years.
Tape a picture of
your goal on your bathroom mirror--whether it's a new house, a new
car, whatever.
Make visualizing and
thinking about your goals a daily exercise. Because it is only by
doing this will your goals ever become a reality.
And don't worry about
setbacks, detours or little bumps in the road--or big bumps either for
that matter. Setbacks happen. That's life. Forget about it. Make the
necessary adjustments and keep going.
Up next is the
second part of the formula: (2.) Do what you love.
There's an old
saying, "Do what you love and you'll never have to work a day in your
life!"
Do you understand
what that means? It means that if you work at doing something you
truly love and enjoy, it won't really seem like work or a job.
Speaking from
personal experience, I'm here to tell you that is absolutely the
truth. Let me give you an example of what I'm talking about.
A couple of years
ago, I made it my goal to have a successful business on the Internet,
even though I had no computer experience and knew absolutely nothing
about the Internet.
At that time, I
didn't even own a computer. All I had was my Webtv and a truckload of
determination.
Well my friends, to
make a long story short, I'm happy to say that I've achieved that
goal. And now I get to stay home all day, everyday and play on my
computer, writing articles like this one and running my various home
businesses.
So, how did I do
it?
I went to the library
and taught myself how to use a computer. I read book after book on how
the Internet works and I taught myself basic HTML (very basic).
Anyway, the bottom
line is, I'm now doing what I love. Most mornings I get up at six
o'clock, because I can't wait to get started. And most nights, I don't
get offline until about eight or nine o'clock.
Now by my
calculations, those are 14 or 15 hour work days. But it doesn't seem
like work to me, because I'm doing what I love. And that's the whole
point!
"Do what you love
and you'll never have to work a day in your life!"
If you hate your
job, find a way to do what you love so that you can quit. You may even
have to work another part-time job or something to get to that point.
But if you really and truly want it bad enough, you'll do whatever it
takes.
Finally, we come to
the third and last part of the formula: (3.) Relentless desire and
determination.
It is also the main
reason why most people don't succeed. They don't have "relentless
desire and determination." And any success you achieve will be in
direct proportion to your desire and determination. Here's another
example to illustrate my point:
Most people think
that it's Tiger Wood's amazing talent that sets him apart from the
other players on the tour. And make no mistake, his talent does play a
significant role in his success. But what really makes Tiger Woods
special is his "relentless desire and determination." He just wants to
win more than everybody else.
It's no secret that
Tiger practices longer and harder than everyone else on the tour. He
also works out like a demon, which was virtually unheard of for a
golfer, until he came along.
Now I'm not saying
you have to be as maniacal about success as Tiger Woods is. That's
simply not realistic. However, I'll repeat something I said earlier in
this article:
"Any success you
achieve will be in direct proportion to your desire and
determination."
The more desire and
determination you have, the greater will be your success.
Now after reading
this article, I'm sure many of you are going to be wondering just
where and how to get started.
The very first thing
I recommend is a complete re-programming of your mind. Because before
you can start walking down that road to success, you first have to get
your mind right.
In that regard,
there are two books that I consider an absolute MUST, if you are at
all serious about being successful in whatever it is you choose to
do.
The books are, "Think
and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill and "The Magic of Thinking Big" by Dr.
David Schwartz.
Your local bookstore
should have both books, since they're all-time classics. If not, try
Amazon.com. But whatever you do, make the investment in yourself and
buy those books!
Another thing, if
you're married or living with someone and you suddenly announce to
your spouse or lover that you want to eventually quit your job and "do
what you love." Don't expect a whole lot of support or kisses and
hugs.
Unfortunately, most
people are conditioned to the "9 to 5, retire at 65," way of thinking.
So, if you expect
support and encouragement from your family and friends, you're
probably going to be disappointed. That's just the way it is. Most
likely, you'll probably hear a bunch of negativity.
That's when you have
to stay strong and focused. Because chances are, you're going to be in
this alone. That's why the mind re-programming is so important. It'll
help you stay focused and positive. And if by chance you do happen to
have family and friends who do support you, so much the better!
Anyway, that's it.
That's "The Amazing Formula That Can Make You A Success!" You'll
notice that not once in this entire article did I mention anything
about making more money. Why? Because "If you do what you love, the
money will follow!"
In closing, if you
want to be successful, you must NEVER give up. You must NEVER quit.
NEVER! No matter what!
Til next time...
Dave Turner is a
writer and entrepreneur with over twenty years of marketing
experience. Questions? Comments? Dave can be reached at
dave@internet-marketing-xpert.com Website: http://www.internet-marketing-xpert.com/
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